Lost my mother in law today

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Lost my mother in law today

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Just short of her 93rd birthday my mother in law past 2 hrs ago. She stopped taking food and water a week ago. Been by her side with the rest of the family for most of the week.
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Sorry for your loss

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So sorry for your loss, I hope you have fond memories to treasure
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Sorry for your lose Bushman and family. Your wife will need you now.
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Sorry for your loss myfriend
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Sorry for your loss Bushman.
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My condolences to you , your wife and family Bushman.
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Sorry to hear that, my condolences
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She came to the experience the journey of life, she experienced, now she's return home..

Experience the memories of your encounters with her journey..

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Sincere condolences to you and your family Bushman.
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Thankyou for sharing your sadness Bushman.
Kind regards to your family .
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:( Wow. 93. Hang in there, my man.
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Sincere condolences to you, your wife and family Bushman.
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Sorry for your loss Bushman
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I'm sorry for your loss Bushman, we went through the same thing a couple months ago.
It's never easy, I hope you and yours have a lot of good memories.
One thing my wife did was to get pictures from everyone and make an album that everyone shared at the memorial, all the pictures were of my mother in law with other family members.
I know it helped.
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My condolences Bushman
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Thank you, we are thankful that we returned in time from our vacation to be with her and the rest of the family. For the last six months she was in memory care and had been going down hill so it was not a sudden surprise. What I learned from the experience is to take care of the details so we don't leave our children with the burden of all the decision making.

Again this community on the forum is so supportive and I appreciate all of you!
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93 years is quite a run, and what a crazy 93 years to live through. I’ll bet she saw things she never could have imagined in her early years. My thoughts are with your family.

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Condolences to you and yours. I’m about to go pour a grappa nightcap so tonight am raising my glass to your wifes mom. I’ll proof it to 93 proof in her honour. It’s a very good number.

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Thinking of you.

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Awful sorry to hear that. Long and wonderful life.
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Sorry for your loss.

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Sorry for your loss, Sincere condolences to you and your family Bushman.
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Sad to hear of your mother-in-law's passing, Bushman. My sincerest condolences to you and your family in your time of loss.
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Our condolences to you, your wife, and the family. Losing someone you love is very, very difficult. I hope y’all have a good suport system there.
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So sorry for you and Mrs. Bushman!
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My condolences Bushman. Take care of your wife and family, and take time for yourself.
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Like my wife's cousin in Norway said, "his mother and my mother in law will not need a dictionary too communicate".
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So sorry for your loss Bushy.
Please pass along my condolences to your missus.
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sorry to hear that bushman, give the missus a big cuddle
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