2016 what a shitty year!

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2016 what a shitty year!

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Hope it gets better. Back in March I lost my father in-law. Then In May I found my mom dead on the couch. She was sitting there holding the phone up to her ear. Guess she was trying to call me. She was there for 2 days before I found her. Not how I wanted to remember my mom. Today I had to put my dog down. Boy was that a hard pill to swallow. Can't imagine anything else happening. :(
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Very sorry for your losses none of those are any fun to go through. I have been through losing a pet in the past and my father last year so I can relate to an extent. It's tough but it helps to have family or at least a community like this to lean on. Hope it gets better.
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My condolences to you DeerHunter. That's super tough.
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Not much to say except that we are here for you to lean on .
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I am really sorry for what you have been through... aint got many words for you but to tell you you got a home here and we encourage you to shine where you can. I lost my mom back in March and life just feels weird now. Please Keep on Keepin on..
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Thanks Guys.......
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Sounds almost identical to my oct 2010 thru march 2011 for me. I lost mom ,my dog,my uncle and my granpa. I do feel your pain. Truely. Nothing helps but time. Sorry for your losses.
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Sorry for your painfull losses. Keep your chin up and push forward till you get to good times.

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A little something my mom wrote to me after my father had died. She never gave this to me, but knew I would find it some day. I read it often to remind me of what I must have meant to her.
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Sorry for your loses my mother had letters like that , that I found after she passed and read them regularly, A mothers love is the greatest love of all in my book. Time heals..
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Condolences to you for all the bad stuff happening to you.
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So sorry for your loss. Although there will always be a whole in your heart for the ones you loved and lost, be thankful for the chance to have loved. Take comfort in knowing that she loved you. Make the best of every day, take nothing for granted. We are not guaranteed tomorrow, or the rest of today. May God bless you and Lee you. May his perpetual light shine upon you.
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I'm sorry for your loss. Strongest person ole boys every knowed was there ma. Pain threshold off the chart. Not sure if you a believer if you is y'all separation only temporary. If you get to a quiet place an talk to her you can hear her.

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Thanks all!
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