in order to get the coupling into the keg, one must drill a hole. The outside diameter of the coupling is around 1.5" so I used a 1.25" Bi-metal hole saw in my drill press. I had to rotate the table out of the way to make room for the keg

Bi-metal is necessary, stainless can be hard to drill but the Bi-metal goes through like butter. Another option is a step bit.
Now I have a hole in my keg down near the bottom. You need it close to the bottom to ensure it will never be above the liquid in your boiler. Initially the hole was too small, this was planned. In order to get a good solder joint you need to use a dremel or files to sneak up on the right sized hole. Go slow and check often. I have my hole sized so I have to force the coupling in tight.
My setup will be soldered in. I will be using a lead free silver based solder. The soldr I have is Oaty safe-flo silver solder. Make sure it has a minimum of 5% silver and is lead free.
The most important aspect of soldering stainlees steel is the flux. It needs to be specific for stainless (acid based). I will be using Harris Stay-Clean. I got mine from FleaBay
As I am waiting for my flux to arrive this will have to wait. Once it's here I'll go thru the joint preparation and the actual soldering. If I can I'll do a video of the actual soldering.