Well, after returning to the parent site, and searching the forum, I simply haven't been able to find enough information for my problem. The parent site had a fine and dandy calculator for coil length, but it was with the assumption that there'll be flow through the bucket. Also, after reading more, I'm starting to doubt the conventional wisdom about boiler/cooler capacity, and to believe that the heating element bears more importance.
Anyway, here's my setup: 20 liter copper alembic heated by a natural gas burner. At present I'm using the cooler (copper bucket with coils) that came with it. It's very pretty, but small, to my mind. I'm running water through the cooler at a rate of 50 liters per hour (relax, Lithuania has plenty of water, and I've got my own well)

I was thinking about making a coil, place it in a 45 liter tub and forget about running water. Now the question arises, how long does my coil tube need to be? Will this work, or is my water going to heat up too much, and I'll need to replenish it with cool water on a regular basis?
BTW, the reason I want to do this, even though water is plentiful and costs me nothing, is that during the winter I'll have problems with the outflow water freezing on my walkway (somehting I don't want), and I don't want to put it down the drain, because pumping the septic out DOES cost.
Thanks for any help.
Aidas